Who can you call at 3am in the morning without any judgements? They just want to know if you’re okay and where they can find you. This post discovers the a message about the important people in your life.
No matter how old I am, there will be times I’ll want my mum for her advice. I’ll always respect my father’s advice on something as he has been a dominant man in my life. I was a daddy’s girl growing up and now I think I’m equally a mummy’s girl.
As we grow older we become more independent. It’s right for us to return the love and care the most important people in our lives have given us. There are bound to be times where there are disagreements between people. But even when it happens with my parents, I know they’ll still support me in the end. That’s because they love me. Mum has always told me and brothers to stand up tall and be proud.
Remember the important people
Whenever you feel like you might be going off track it’s important to remember how to get back onto your journey. It’s where your loving family and friends are.
Don’t take the people for granted who love you the most. Mum and dad always taught me that.
Danny is a person who has loved me for me from day one. He respects my decisions and fills my life with reassurance that I can achieve the greatest things. My best friend always seems to be in a very similar agreement with him too.
As far as fighting battles go, my brothers have played a huge role in my life when it comes to protecting me. Maybe they get it from my dad. Or maybe it’s just been a thing for them to do as I’m their little sister. If anyone’s ever said or done anything hurtful to me, they’ve been in my corner and protected me.
A couple of key memories come into my mind here. My brother Gaz was there for me when a boy called me as I was at our local shopping centre. This was just because he knew I was associated with a girl he didn’t like anymore. My brother was annoyed and thought that no one had the right to call his little sister.
Another time was when my brother Phil found out I was bullied at school. I didn’t share this with anyone – not a single soul. But Phil knew without me having to tell the whole story. He would always get his mates to check I was okay. And whenever someone was causing trouble, at least one of them would be in sight asking if I was okay.
The little things
Phil and Gaz would joke around and call me little things. But no way in this world could anyone bully me. Bullies can be clever I guess when they try to play their little games when no one else is around.
All three, my two brothers and my dad have all played a part whenever a boy has been involved. Now that I’m a woman at the age of 22, they’ve calmed down since I’ve been with Danny. I never thought I’d see the day where my brothers and my dad would accept another man into my life.
Who can I call at 3:00am in the morning? Definitely Danny. I have done so on several occasions. And he’s never complained about it. He deserves an award to be honest. Not just for being at my side when I’m stuck getting home, or the rest, but for devoting so much time to me.
No matter what
If it’s a dark, cold night travelling home Danny, my mum and dad, auntie Linda, and Danny mum have always said to call them.
Never forget the most important people in your life. My parents, brothers, aunties and uncles etc. have always loved me. And of course, Danny. The people who truly love me is the reason why they’re still in my life today.
Memories with those important people are so special
Granny and grandad, two people who aren’t alive but they always will be in my heart. I don’t believe that any other two people could have been a bigger inspiration in my childhood.
They always had my back too. Grandad would make sure that granny joined in playing shop or post because he knew how much I wanted us all to play! The same goes for granny telling my brothers to be quiet whenever they thought they were being clever around me.
If you love someone – family, friends, whoever, make sure they know about it.
We are blessed to have friends and family. Whoever we class as our family or friends does not matter. It’s standing by those who love and care for us the most. They are the most important people in your life.