Welcome to my World of Wisdom
It’s Wednesday so it’s only appropriate that I write some words of wisdom for you all. Especially considering the fact that I woke up this morning feeling more hopeful than I did yesterday.
Here are twenty-seven points that come to mind…
Be the person you want to be rather than the person other people want to see.
You’re stronger than you think
You might not think you’ve got this, but you can surprise yourself.
Someone finds you beautiful
We all see beauty differently. And someone definitely sees the beauty in you.
Overthinking is more damaging than you think
Don’t damage that head of yours. Fill it with knowledge and positivity.
Lazy days are good. But boredom can frustrate us. Use time wisely.
Say thank you to anyone who’s helped you. Be happy to have such loving friends and family.
We are all blessed
We have a life to be as creative as we want, to fall in love, and to take exciting journeys.
Remember what motivates you
Don’t forget about the things that helped you get where you are today.
Know what you have today
Don’t wait for the moment when it’s taken away from you to realise.
Learn from good and bad experiences. It will help you grow.
Patience is a virtue. Don’t let time challenge you too often.
Fall in love. Love your friends and love your family.
Plan and organise (where you can)
Being prepared feels good and you’ll be ready for different scenarios
Remove toxic thoughts
Where do you see yourself in 5 years? In a much happier state of mind.
Explore your freedom
Take that trip you’ve always wanted to go on. Take a different route to work. Live.
Times will get hard
Use as much strength and courage you have to fight through them.
Smile and laugh
A favourite trait of mine. Create your place of happiness. Enjoy your life.
Don’t let people take advantage of you
When it all ends, they’ll see that they were the fool.
Let go of ‘What ifs’
Accept where you are today. Don’t repeatedly punish yourself for doing something wrong.
Let someone love you
Maybe they’ll be able to reduce your insecurities. You can lose your fear of commitment.
Respect everyone who respects you
We all live in the same world. It’s a sign of mutual appreciation.
You’re not an embarrassment
We’ve all been foolish. Live and let go.
Don’t look into it too much
Focus on how a person is with you. You’ll see how important you are.
Be bold and be brave
Again, hold onto that courage. You’ll become stronger and more independent.
Don’t be a pushover
Do you always seem to be an easy target? Me too. Let’s be fiercer.
There’s no such thing as dreaming too big
You can dream about anything you want even if you think it’s higher than your potential.
A new day brings new opportunities
Take chances. Believe. And show everyone the real you.
These have all been inspired by things that I’ve been told myself. The majority have been in some way or another said by my boyfriend. Some of which my best friend and I also share with each other.
I want you to know that yesterday I woke up with what I thought were the world’s worst thoughts. Good company, hugs, comfort, and a look in the eye amongst many words told me what I needed to hear. It was the most truthful words I’ve heard – considering that yesterday I mentioned I was worried I didn’t know how it felt to hear the whole entire truth.
I know that I need to stop holding back on what I really want and often that being what I need. The smallest gestures give me the will to put so much into something just as much as another person. Think about when your family and friends can see how such a person affects you so positively – your face lights up when they walk into the room on the gloomiest of days kind of person.
If you know what you want, stop trying to fight it and expressing yourself in a whole complete different way. Take a step back, but don’t look back too much. Remember that no one deserves time spent on them if they have such a negative effect on you. They’re not one bit bothered about you yet they have had the ability to cover so much of your thoughts.
It’s difficult – I know.
But with much courage you can believe that you deserve to be happy and start to love yourself more. You begin to criticise yourself less and open a whole new perspective of freedom.
At times, I don’t always think that I can get past something. I’ve held to what might have been rather what this is right now. It’s probably more pointless than meaningful but our minds can have a tendency to wonder.
If there’s someone who holds your hand and takes you through the world like no one else has done before, keep hold of that hand. You don’t have to control your happiness by the comments of everyone else and what they think a situation is.
Remember that you want to be you – and who’s ‘you’ going to be when you are living the life controlled by someone else’s opinion of you?